Infidels!!!!!

Ah, don't let the pictures misinterpet the message today, but I am gonna give a good opinion of mine on something that is VERY relevant for the troops and their families. I put the picture up of the family, because that is what is important to me, and in this episode, I might get a little heated, I don't know, but I tend to just be off the cuff with these things and I get mad!
This isn't something that affects me personally, but in a way I am affected by the outcome of other peoples trangressions!
INFIDELITY in the military is not that uncommon, and it is one that that just pisses me off in the world, let alone the military! Now, if someone has a girlfriend or boyfriend and the cheating goes on than, whatever, such is life, and everyone has their views and how they live their life!
HOWEVER, once you get married, for the life of me, HOW IN THE HELL CAN YOU JUSTIFY A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE BESIDES YOUR SPOUSE? I LOVE my spouse and for all the great thiings she has done for me, I don't understand how someone would even consider that an option! I like talking to women, but would never think of being unfaithful! You give up family, friends , lifestyles, ALL FOR A NUT!!!! I LOVE SEX, but I don't NEED SEX!
And the only reason I love it so much is because I am fortunate enough to be able to do it with a hot wife that I was able to lasso up!
I just don't understand it, and have NO respect for someone that has NO respect for their family! I don't even care if you don't have kids. Why did you get married in the first place?
I don't care if you have marriage problems! Now, here's the thing! Marriage is a religious commitment to ME, some people see it as more of a lawful thing! Well, that does not justify unfaithfulness! See, then you mix the military with these things, and the fact that people leave, and get deployed, moved around, unacompanied for months, even years of time away from family! Well, of course you get horny, and your body needs attention, and they have things for that! It's call Lefty and Righty! IF YOU ARE UNFAITHFUL TO YOUR LAWFULL SPOUSE YOU ARE A PIECE OF SHIT! NO EXCUSE!!!! And if you have the lack of respect even more to do it on deployment, while your family sits at home and takes care of EVERYTHING for you, I can wish nothing but for them to find out and DITCH your ass! Now, let's flip this bad boy around, and say the SPOUSE is at home having the time of their lives with infidels! Because that is just as common! All the while their spouse is risking their life for them providing, while getting their rocks off in the states! I think it is just a poisonous environment, and it is a big reason I got off active duty, because I saw SO many families torn apart, because it was so common and accepted. And NO ONE can tell me it isn't, because IT IS! Now, we have a lot of great upstanding spouses and soldiers that are happily in love and support each other through thick and thin! I commend them, and am proud to be a commited honorable husband that MEANT what he said at his wedding, and have followed the values that were meant to mean something, and cares about not only their spouse, but kids as well, who in the end are affected by it! I don't know why this was on my mind, well, I do but anyone I know that ever has done this, and especially on a deployment, is a piece of shit, and you will know who I am talking about with the way you are treated FOREVER, by me!

Aside from that, today started the bigger adjustment to having us all 4 back in the office, and it isn't bad, but I really did not mind there being 2 of us here, and I love these guys, but honestly, I just am sick of active duty military, and being deployed. I know, and I can honestly say that this downturn in reenlistments, and enlistments will get worse before it gets better, and the military plays hardball a lot and puts these people on stop/loss, and yeah they can talk tough then to the soldiers, but once the soldier has the upper hand they have to give them a HUGE bonus just to stay in! Well, unfortunatley, sometimes a HUGE bonus works, but only because that person needed the $! I just think sometimes the people in the chain forget about the soldiers own good and are to worried about themselves, and the fact that it is military, and you can screw someone with no sweat off your back, they do it. I will tell you I am a HUGE what comes around goes around guy! And what go UP, must come DOWN! I love seeing people come back down when they deserve it! It's like 4th of July baby!
Have a great Saturday, and come back tommorrow for my jottings, and frolickng and FUN!
Todays wasn't fun, but relevant!
Later,
Erik