Monday, August 22, 2005

Don't take this lightly!















Tigris River in downtown Baghdad!
Mosque compound in DT Baghdad!



As our good man SSG Brennan used to say on the
PDHA team from NC! "It's another great day in paradise!" Oh, well, he also used to say "I'm possessed!" To which he was a wicken in religious terms! A wicken, if you don't know, is a witch in religion terms! Well, that freaked me out a little at first, but as he told me more about it, and as I gave him crap, you know, I understood it, and had no real interest in it, but he was faithful to it, and it didn't seem to be about witchcraft, just a different form of faith! He ended up being the most sane one here in the end before the NC people left! His favorite show was, of course, Charmed!!! For real, it was!

OK, so today, I want to give a little wisdom, advice, preparation, or whatever they want to take it as to a lot of soldiers that are going to be preparing for the upcoming rotation of deployment for the MN Army NG to here, or WHEREVER they go!
I KNOW what it is like to have all the RUMORS swirling around your units, and everyone wants the inside scoop and to be aware of what is happening first! Well, first of all I was one of those people, but I will tell you what! Nothing now, or EVER in this deployment, is what we had heard before we left MN! Meaning that when poeple in your unit say they don't know what is going on they probably don't! So don't start things! Because, I will say one thing, you are IN the Army's plans, they are not deploying you, training you, and sending you to MS and then deciding what they are going to do with you! It is planned! BUT, either way, you need not concern yourselves with where you are going in the end! You will be going through intense training 1st! The biggst thing is to LEARN EVERYTHING YOU CAN FROM THAT TRAINING! Because now, more than ever is the difference between LIFE OR DEATH! I realize that a lot of people have Bosnia, or Kosovo experience, but how many poeple did you know die or get wounded during that deployment? This is REAL shit, and I will GUARANTEE that the NG units that have come over here, from tight knit communities will NEVER be the same that they have lost numerous members to their towns! Do a Google search about Ohio! Ask Michelle in Iraq right now, who is in the Reserves and has been wounded, and her Battle Buddy killed in her arms! I call her a hero, and way more brave than even I, but she tells me she doesn't see herself as a hero, she is doing her job! Michelle, can you back me up on this?
So anyways, I will tell you that you should take this time you have where you know that you will be deploying soon, and get things in order! Your jobs, your spouses jobs, your daycare, your wills your Power of Attorneys(HUGE, do not overlook that!), your finances, your bills!(Set them up automatically, don't leave your spouses with that). Make sure they have a support system within your family, neighborhoods, UNITS, FSG(Huge). Prepare for REALITY! Don't think you will not feel the effects of war! Make sure you are mentally prepared to go. Take care of your families before you go, THEY WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU WHEN YOU ARE GONE!
The hardest part of beign deployed is having NO CONTROL of things at home, and things you controlled before, and that sucks, but you have to get used to it! DO NOT BE MACHO as a front! I don't care what your job is, YOU SHOULD BE SCARED SHITLESS! That is not to scare anyone or anyones family members, but if you think this is going to be an easy deployment, THINK AGAIN! Don't start rumors, listen to rumors, or follow advice from rumors! You will be WRONG! Make sure your families face reality in advance of your departure, and you pay attention to their needs BEFORE leave! You will ave plenty of time when you are gone to worry about yourself. Believe me the first couple months will be hardest for THEM, not you, so get them taken care of! The stress of danger, and the desert will give YOU enough to worry about the first couple months! Also, make sure you find a way to communicate on a regular basis, whether in the states it's cell phones, or in Iraq!(Buying cell phones, DSN #'s, SPAWAR).
My whole point to this is to say don't be casual about reality before you leave, cherish the time you spend with your family before you leave, and you will feel better when you are gone!
People that have been to Bosnia, or Kosovo know the family stuff, but I don't think are prepared for the actual job they are about to embark on!
Make sure you are in shape mentally and physically, for the weather, there will be no reason to have heat injuries if you are prepared. Some Active Duty think NG are typical stereotypes, but when I pass them on the runs, and have better points in meetings, and have to constantly correct them, they shut up fast! Make yourselves the best individual and team before you go!
I tell all of this mainly for the people I know going with that rotation, but everyone can learn something from people that are here now! If anyone else over here can add to this, please do!
Minnesota will be represented well, and lets make sure they are prepared!

Thats all for today, boring(but important) stuff, and I think the Star Tribune article might be in todays paper, it is about weather I think! He said things can change last minute, so we'll see!
Also, the article in the South Washington County Bulletin should be out now!
Check and see if they are there!
Everyone that is deploying, you have my commitment when I get back to do what I can for you when your gone! So many people have done SO much for us! I will return the favor!

Later,
Erik,

16 Comments:

Blogger Stacy said...

Erik,

This is an excellent post. You are 100% right. I only wish that our FRG would have different. Several of us went for the first couple of months, and I was an officer, until it became a business meeting type thing. I had joined this group to be able to communicate with others that were going through the same thing that I was going through. I got a rude awakening. Eventually I resigned as an officer. I actually have less stress now since I am not in the group. I only hope that other FRG's are different than ours is.

I sure hope that people read your post today, and take your advice, as it is excellent and I could not have put it in any better words.

Hope you have a good day Erik.

August 23, 2005 3:42 AM  
Blogger Sue said...

Erik,
It's a wonderful thing you've done by writing this post. Not JUST for the NG soldiers but for those they love too. It's one of the best you've done (I say that to myself often as I read ALL of your posts). You know that there are people stateside who truly wait for you to come home safely just as your family does. We may never meet you but somehow we know you. There's nothing profound in that, but the blessing is ours - the privilege to pray for you and your family is ours as well. Praying that every soldier who reads this (and every soldier's family) heeds your advice...and is blessed with a safe journey.
Godspeed, Erik.

August 23, 2005 4:09 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks SGT Holtan. Well written. Hopefully your advice will be followed. The thing which causes the most angst & turmoil is the rumor-mill & those that fuel it. Until you have been in a situation where you can see that, it is hard to understand and appreciate. One of the hardest (not physically) things the Soldiers will deal with is the lengthy period in the States prior to going into country. I wish there was an easier way.

Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Take Care,
MAJ B

August 23, 2005 5:18 AM  
Blogger Me said...

My brother (I'll just call him Sargeant Soldier) knows what some of his guys that were already sent over are doing (he didn't go the first round) and he's dropped hints as to the stuff he's been training for recently..... without too many details to scare the parental units. So we have a pretty good idea of what he'll be doing. (Sucks to be infantry?) LOL. But military is his life... literally.

He'll be heading over in October.

August 23, 2005 6:04 AM  
Blogger April M. Shah said...

YOU'VE BEEN TAGGED!

August 23, 2005 6:17 AM  
Blogger momma of 2 said...

Erik, informative post, Whenever I would ask my dad to clairfy something about the Army, my Dad would say the most important thing to know about the Army is: when you are in the Army, you only think, speak and do what the Army tells you to think, speak and do, and to not believe anything until after it happens, because what they told you at 0700 was not necessarily what happened at 1200...but that was years ago (69-73). Have a good day and stay safe!

August 23, 2005 6:19 AM  
Blogger jenbeauty said...

This made me very sad today. What you and your families have to go through. I hate that you guys have to be there.

More Americans need to hear what you soliders have to say. REALITY you can open so many eyes with posts like this.

Thanks Eric.

August 23, 2005 7:25 AM  
Blogger Free to Be said...

That photo with the hat over the head scared me to death when I first saw it. Don't do that!

Catching up on your posts. Cheers to you and your wife, what a great couple!

Stay safe, keep posting!

August 23, 2005 7:31 AM  
Blogger Al's Girl said...

Great post, Erik!!

Our FRG SUCKS!! (*See Stacy's comment - lol!)

Thanks for the good advice. I hope that it can be taken to heart for those that are just starting this process.

August 23, 2005 9:51 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

SGT. Holtan, Thanks for this post, I was informed this morning that I'll be going on this MN deployment coming up. We ship out in about 25 days and I'm thankful I have the time to get things in order, as I know some soldiers get less time to inform family, work...and get things lined up. I'll pass on what you have said here to the others deploying with me. Your are an inspiration to me and I will try to represent the NG, MN, and my unit well. Thank-you for allowing us who read your posts to share your experiences with you. Spc. Fields

August 23, 2005 10:47 AM  
Blogger Mama Duck said...

Great advice for those about to join you.

I can also hear the longing for your family in your voice.

It won't be long now.

August 23, 2005 10:57 AM  
Blogger LizzieDaisy said...

Hey Erik... wonderful post. Sad, but wonderful. My friend, a woman, came home a very different person. It's been tough for her. In fact, I found out just yesterday that she and her husband are seperating for the moment. He seems unable to cope. Anyway, I am praying that things change soon and we won't need to send anyone else over. In the meantime, better to be prepared and not sugarcoat. Scary stuff.

I put up a post for you on my blog.

http://madeperfect.blogspot.com/

take care of yourself...

August 23, 2005 12:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Erik

So, looks like I'll be heading to Iraq myself! Thank you for the good advice, I will make sure I take it to heart. I know that this deployment will not be like Bosnia, and I am glad to have someone like you to set things straight.

The group we're going with is great, and I can't wait to start working with them. I am glad to see that Fields is going too! He wasn't this weekend, but now he is!

Any information that you can give out on your experience is great, also, packing list ideas and stuff that we may not think of would be great if you have some time.

Hope you are having an excellent day and I will talk to you later.

P.S.. I am figuring out the coffee thing for you! Trying to get it there when it is halfway fresh is the hardest part!

Bye for now!
~Shannon

Oh, and I started a blog too! We'll see how that goes! I liked your idea, it can keep people updated on your adventures.
shannonmunstenteiger.blogspot.com

August 23, 2005 2:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

SGT Holtan,
Thanks a lot for the advice. Its better to hear it from someone who is there and experiencing what we are all about to do. I know that we will be trained well but it will still be difficult to be away from our families and friends for so long. Keep in touch and stay safe!!

LT Gilbertson

August 23, 2005 6:54 PM  
Blogger Marie said...

Erik,
This is truly an excellent post. I love reading what you have to say.

Take good care,
M

August 23, 2005 9:58 PM  
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